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	<title>Comments on: Un-preparing yourself for College</title>
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	<pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2008 20:25:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Pablo Wegesend</title>
		<link>http://quarterlifecafe.honadvblogs.com/2008/04/30/un-preparing-yourself-for-college/#comment-1465</link>
		<dc:creator>Pablo Wegesend</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 03:18:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I suggest Hawaii students attend UH1

The "mainland college advocates" say you'll meet people different from yourself in the mainland!

But a Hawaii student @ UH gets to learn how people from other parts of Hawaii live!

My high school (McKinley) was an urban, mostly immigrant, partially ghettotized, and one of the least "local" schools in Hawaii!

So meeting people from the Neighbor Islands, rural Oahu and suburban Oahu was an eye opener for me!

So was meeting UH students who came from Oregon &#38; Washington (where most of the mainland students @ UH came from) an eye opener</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I suggest Hawaii students attend UH1</p>
<p>The &#8220;mainland college advocates&#8221; say you&#8217;ll meet people different from yourself in the mainland!</p>
<p>But a Hawaii student @ UH gets to learn how people from other parts of Hawaii live!</p>
<p>My high school (McKinley) was an urban, mostly immigrant, partially ghettotized, and one of the least &#8220;local&#8221; schools in Hawaii!</p>
<p>So meeting people from the Neighbor Islands, rural Oahu and suburban Oahu was an eye opener for me!</p>
<p>So was meeting UH students who came from Oregon &amp; Washington (where most of the mainland students @ UH came from) an eye opener</p>
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		<title>By: Richard</title>
		<link>http://quarterlifecafe.honadvblogs.com/2008/04/30/un-preparing-yourself-for-college/#comment-1439</link>
		<dc:creator>Richard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 02:48:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am well-aware that not every student in Hawaii can afford to go to school on the Mainland, but if they or their parents can do so, I would strongly suggest it.  Because studying on the Mainland is like obtaining TWO college degrees:

1.  One in your academic field (studying Chemistry or English, et al.; performing research; getting to know the library; doing an internship; producing papers and reports); and
2.  One in the challenges you will face (eating potatoes, shoveling snow off your car, understanding "New York-ese", trying to figure out how to get from Columbus, Ohio to Philadelphia, buying an airplane ticket, finding your lost luggage, answering dumb questions about Hawaii, etc.).  

In many ways, as a preparation for life and the difficulties and opportunities that globalization presents, the second will be more important than the first.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am well-aware that not every student in Hawaii can afford to go to school on the Mainland, but if they or their parents can do so, I would strongly suggest it.  Because studying on the Mainland is like obtaining TWO college degrees:</p>
<p>1.  One in your academic field (studying Chemistry or English, et al.; performing research; getting to know the library; doing an internship; producing papers and reports); and<br />
2.  One in the challenges you will face (eating potatoes, shoveling snow off your car, understanding &#8220;New York-ese&#8221;, trying to figure out how to get from Columbus, Ohio to Philadelphia, buying an airplane ticket, finding your lost luggage, answering dumb questions about Hawaii, etc.).  </p>
<p>In many ways, as a preparation for life and the difficulties and opportunities that globalization presents, the second will be more important than the first.</p>
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		<title>By: betweenTHEears</title>
		<link>http://quarterlifecafe.honadvblogs.com/2008/04/30/un-preparing-yourself-for-college/#comment-1438</link>
		<dc:creator>betweenTHEears</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 23:50:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The closest thing we had at Kahuku (when I was there in '98) was a midguided counselor who spoke about his days in college...some 30 years prior. Not entirely useful by any means. Additionally, this counselor almost pulled a Lily Tomlin (as in the movie Orange County) and submitted the wrong SAT scores. Thank god I noticed this before my apps went out.

I agree with the sense of unknown that many high school graduates encounter once in college. I went through it twice. Once in transitioning from a country town like Kahuku...to Manoa...and eventually to Palo Alto for grad school. In both cases, long distance relationship failed and I had to learn how to assimilate into my new surroundings. 

Now that I am back at Manoa obtaining an MBA degree with a few degrees already under my belt, the only adjustment that I've had to make is allotting time between full-time work and part-time evening classes.

Great blog, btw.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The closest thing we had at Kahuku (when I was there in &#8216;98) was a midguided counselor who spoke about his days in college&#8230;some 30 years prior. Not entirely useful by any means. Additionally, this counselor almost pulled a Lily Tomlin (as in the movie Orange County) and submitted the wrong SAT scores. Thank god I noticed this before my apps went out.</p>
<p>I agree with the sense of unknown that many high school graduates encounter once in college. I went through it twice. Once in transitioning from a country town like Kahuku&#8230;to Manoa&#8230;and eventually to Palo Alto for grad school. In both cases, long distance relationship failed and I had to learn how to assimilate into my new surroundings. </p>
<p>Now that I am back at Manoa obtaining an MBA degree with a few degrees already under my belt, the only adjustment that I&#8217;ve had to make is allotting time between full-time work and part-time evening classes.</p>
<p>Great blog, btw.</p>
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		<title>By: Andrew</title>
		<link>http://quarterlifecafe.honadvblogs.com/2008/04/30/un-preparing-yourself-for-college/#comment-1437</link>
		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 19:15:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I still remember doing this (for parents).  In particular, I remember the only person asking questions was your dad, and the only person answering questions was me, and I was doing my best to unsettle the parents in the room.

"Sure, the University of Rochester boasts a 40 second response time to calls from the emergency phones around campus, but how long does it take someone to hit you over the head and drag you away, or stab you, or shoot you?"

"Well, the campus is beautiful and affluent, but right across the street is the lowest income area I've ever seen in my life.  The residents of that area often come across the river to rob college kids.  Like the guy who lived next to me in the dorms; he got punched in the face right outside our building!"</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I still remember doing this (for parents).  In particular, I remember the only person asking questions was your dad, and the only person answering questions was me, and I was doing my best to unsettle the parents in the room.</p>
<p>&#8220;Sure, the University of Rochester boasts a 40 second response time to calls from the emergency phones around campus, but how long does it take someone to hit you over the head and drag you away, or stab you, or shoot you?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Well, the campus is beautiful and affluent, but right across the street is the lowest income area I&#8217;ve ever seen in my life.  The residents of that area often come across the river to rob college kids.  Like the guy who lived next to me in the dorms; he got punched in the face right outside our building!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: JMAW</title>
		<link>http://quarterlifecafe.honadvblogs.com/2008/04/30/un-preparing-yourself-for-college/#comment-1433</link>
		<dc:creator>JMAW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 20:53:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I spent a good amount of time serving students as an Resident Advisor, Hall Director, and Residence Life Coordinator at two Universities.  In many instances, I've seen an attitude or a philosophy practiced that isn't always one of serving students.  I completely disagree.  Students must know that the University exists because of students.  The same thing goes for all the services that are offered.  

Students and/or their parents pay good money for college and the costs that come with it.  Quality service should be offered and if it's not then students have the right and even duty to fight for it.  There are multiple levels and entities that exist at Universities for students to get the support they need.  And don't be afraid to shake the different branches on the tree.  It's not always popular to do so, but if you're fighting for what's right and it can benefit the lives of those around you, then it's worth it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I spent a good amount of time serving students as an Resident Advisor, Hall Director, and Residence Life Coordinator at two Universities.  In many instances, I&#8217;ve seen an attitude or a philosophy practiced that isn&#8217;t always one of serving students.  I completely disagree.  Students must know that the University exists because of students.  The same thing goes for all the services that are offered.  </p>
<p>Students and/or their parents pay good money for college and the costs that come with it.  Quality service should be offered and if it&#8217;s not then students have the right and even duty to fight for it.  There are multiple levels and entities that exist at Universities for students to get the support they need.  And don&#8217;t be afraid to shake the different branches on the tree.  It&#8217;s not always popular to do so, but if you&#8217;re fighting for what&#8217;s right and it can benefit the lives of those around you, then it&#8217;s worth it.</p>
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		<title>By: C.W.</title>
		<link>http://quarterlifecafe.honadvblogs.com/2008/04/30/un-preparing-yourself-for-college/#comment-1432</link>
		<dc:creator>C.W.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 19:42:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Can we get into more details about the hooking up?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can we get into more details about the hooking up?</p>
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		<title>By: carolyn</title>
		<link>http://quarterlifecafe.honadvblogs.com/2008/04/30/un-preparing-yourself-for-college/#comment-1431</link>
		<dc:creator>carolyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 18:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this is a great post Kim.  Along with the comments there are some great bits of advice for those preparing (or now un-preparing) for the big trip away from home.  good job!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this is a great post Kim.  Along with the comments there are some great bits of advice for those preparing (or now un-preparing) for the big trip away from home.  good job!</p>
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		<title>By: lori</title>
		<link>http://quarterlifecafe.honadvblogs.com/2008/04/30/un-preparing-yourself-for-college/#comment-1430</link>
		<dc:creator>lori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 18:07:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Also, did anyone present questions about Thanksgiving or traveling during break?  that's also why I would recommend befriending a East Coaster.  Or asking for an East Coaster as a freshman roommate. heh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Also, did anyone present questions about Thanksgiving or traveling during break?  that&#8217;s also why I would recommend befriending a East Coaster.  Or asking for an East Coaster as a freshman roommate. heh.</p>
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		<title>By: lori</title>
		<link>http://quarterlifecafe.honadvblogs.com/2008/04/30/un-preparing-yourself-for-college/#comment-1429</link>
		<dc:creator>lori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 18:02:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great topic, even if it makes me feel like an old futt!

Coming from Hawaii and going to school on the East Coast, I would say, don't be afraid to make friends with people other than people from Hawaii and California.  I fell into that trap and although I love my friends to pieces, it's nice to have diversity. 

Freshman ten (or fifteen): it's a reality.

Exploit your hawaii-ness.  People love it.  And get used to people telling you, "Why in the world would you want to come here?" when you tell them you're from Hawaii.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great topic, even if it makes me feel like an old futt!</p>
<p>Coming from Hawaii and going to school on the East Coast, I would say, don&#8217;t be afraid to make friends with people other than people from Hawaii and California.  I fell into that trap and although I love my friends to pieces, it&#8217;s nice to have diversity. </p>
<p>Freshman ten (or fifteen): it&#8217;s a reality.</p>
<p>Exploit your hawaii-ness.  People love it.  And get used to people telling you, &#8220;Why in the world would you want to come here?&#8221; when you tell them you&#8217;re from Hawaii.</p>
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		<title>By: jenjen</title>
		<link>http://quarterlifecafe.honadvblogs.com/2008/04/30/un-preparing-yourself-for-college/#comment-1428</link>
		<dc:creator>jenjen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 16:42:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This post made my day.  I stumbled onto your blog about a month ago, since I've been homesick up here in California.  And I have to say that I relate to a lot of what you write about.  Then, lo and behold, I found out that you're an Iolani alum, like me.  Although, I'm from the c/o '99; so i'm a little older than you.  I thought the "Life after Iolani" event was extremely helpful.  Good for you for participating and giving back to the school.  College really changed me too, especially grad school in NYC.  It's the culture shock that I didn't really get warned about.  But, I think it helps you to develop a really thick skin.  

Keep up the great writing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post made my day.  I stumbled onto your blog about a month ago, since I&#8217;ve been homesick up here in California.  And I have to say that I relate to a lot of what you write about.  Then, lo and behold, I found out that you&#8217;re an Iolani alum, like me.  Although, I&#8217;m from the c/o &#8216;99; so i&#8217;m a little older than you.  I thought the &#8220;Life after Iolani&#8221; event was extremely helpful.  Good for you for participating and giving back to the school.  College really changed me too, especially grad school in NYC.  It&#8217;s the culture shock that I didn&#8217;t really get warned about.  But, I think it helps you to develop a really thick skin.  </p>
<p>Keep up the great writing!</p>
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